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April 20, 2005

Big Tent v. Remnant

I'm going to make this short, and it will probably be inadequate. I closed a thread below because I didn't like it. No offense against anyone who posted, but I found some of the "You mean people are accusing everyone of being heretics" posts ill-founded and unfair, and some of the responses were less than helpful, in that they didn't quite match up to what the Church teaches and is all about.

This was basically prompted by Cardinal Ratzinger's past statements suggesting that the Church of the future might be smaller, even as it is more faithful to the Gospel.

Notice what the now-Pope does not say. He doesn't say this is fantastic. He doesn't say that this will be accomplished by kicking people out. He makes an observation that this well might be the case.

What struck me today, frankly, as I was scrubbing potatoes - was that the "orthodox" sometimes want to have it both ways. They tout the power and beauty of orthodoxy as a force that is attractive - orthodox dioceses have more vocations, orthodox religious orders are growing, mainline churches are in decline, etc.

But then they hop on Ratzinger's remnant allusions with vigor, as well.

I suppose it could be both ways, but I can't work that out right now.

But somehow this came to be an excuse for folks to state their displeasure with an exclusionary tone they detected in some posts - which was, in some cases, an accurate observation. I tried to address the exclusionary/inclusive issue below. Just a bit more:

The Catholic Church has been all over the place in this regard. In the Early Church, Christianity was, indeed, rather "exclusive," the process for entry was rigorous, and the consequences for serious sin quite harsh.

But then, things changed. Christianity was established, understanding of sin, reconciliation and baptism developed, and masses of Germanic tribes were incorporated into the Church.  The Mass, once the exclusive domain of the initiated who were also in communion in the broadest sense, was open to all - receiving Communion eventually became the point of self-judgment, but as far as being Christian and participating in worship...anyone could sit in the back of the cathedral or the parish, and it was generally fine.

(I've written of this at other times, as I've mulled over the disappearance of the Bad Catholic. We are all Good Catholics now.)

And do you know what? It's still fine. The Church, as we live it, is made up of saints and sinners, and everyone in between. It's big and messy. Most people sitting in the pews live with points of dissonance between their lives and the call of the Gospel. Most people sitting in the pews wonder, doubt, have difficulties with certain teachings, and question.

That's not what anyone - I think it's safe to say - is talking about in that thread below.

Because if each of us were totally honest, we would be able to bring out our own points of dissonance, the teachings which we believe, but find so hard to live, the teachings that don't make sense to us. Therese of Lisieux lived with doubt. Mother Teresa was tormented by it.

None of us - not one - has any right or place to judge the interior faith of another, and I don't think anyone here is trying to.

But public statements and assertions by public Catholics and Church leaders who speak ignorantly or misleadingly, who mischaracterize the teaching of the Church - that's another. Again, the call is not ours, although public statements certainly can legitimately bring on public responses. But still, wishes for anyone to separate themself from Christ and his Church are wrong.

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Comments

Thanks, Amy. I made a comment on some other blog that I didn't understand why everyone assumes that the "springtime" of the Church was necessarily going to be equated with larger numbers of Catholics. Didn't receive a positive response. Glad to see I'm not the only one willing to admit the possibility that that may be how things play out.

Posted by: JACK at Apr 20, 2005 5:12:40 PM

That's actually what then-Cdl. Ratzinger said about the "new springtime" in his 2003 EWTN interview with Raymond Arroyo. Excerpt:

...And my idea is that really the springtime of the Church will not say that we will have in a near time buses of conversions, that all peoples of the world will be converted to Catholicism. This is not the way of God. The essential things in history begin always with the small, more convinced communities. So, the Church begins with the 12 Apostles. And even the Church of St. Paul diffused in the Mediterranean are little communities, but this community in itself is the future of the world, because we have the truth and the force of conviction. So, I think also today it should be an error to think now or in 10 years with the new springtime, all people will be Catholic. This is not our future, nor our expectation. But we will have really convinced communities with élan of the faith, no? This is springtime — a new life in very convinced persons with joy of the faith.

Raymond: But, smaller numbers? In the macro?

Cardinal: Smaller numbers, I think. But from these small numbers we will have a radiation of joy in the world. And so, it’s an attraction, as it was in the old Church. Even when Constantine made Christianity the public religion, there were a small number of percentage at this time; but it was clear, this is the future. So we can live in the future, just give us a way in a different future. And so, I would say, if we have young people really with the joy of the faith and this radiation of this joy of the faith, this will show to the world, “Even if I cannot share it, even if I cannot convert it at this moment, here is the way to live for tomorrow."

As for me, I want no one to leave the Church. I do want priests and bishops to start preaching the Gospel and the Catholic faith as if they believed it. A non-Catholic journalist friend said to me today that he's been to a number of Catholic masses in connection with his beat in recent years, and all of them "seem lifeless and dispirited, like people were only there out of habit."

I credit this reporter's powers of observation.

Posted by: Rod Dreher at Apr 20, 2005 5:21:15 PM

There is a large number of people who have already left the church in spirit. It will only be a short time before they leave the church in body.

This is nothing to rejoice over, it is a simple fact. I agree with the pope that Christianity is to get to be a smaller community of faithful and devout and from there we will have the opportunity to grow.

You cannot pretend there is a big tent when there is a group who openly reject the church and all it stands for as it is. And as far as kicking people out, it will be imperative that the soul-destroyers (the devil's 5th column) that exists within the church in all it's institutions will have to be removed from any positions of influence and authority. They can always repent but should be considered damaged goods.

Posted by: Loren Z at Apr 20, 2005 5:25:52 PM

Oh, as I was writing that, one of the readers of the Dallas Morning News blog wrote to comment on one of my Benedict posts there. Read this and take it extremely seriously. This is exactly what this question is about:

My friends who claim to be Catholic but never step inside the church except for maybe Easter and Christmas are very disappointed in the pope. But my question to them - is are you really even Catholic? I don't get why people who are not devout and don't want to be devout, want a pope that thinks their way. Shouldn't the pope serve the people who actually care about the church? I mean there are other liberal religions that tolerate abortion, gay priests, etc... Why don't they go join those religions?

I have investigated joining the Catholic church b/c I like its tenets which 50% of my friends who claim to be Catholic don't seem to even
understand. But what has prevented me from joining is the fact that everyone I know who claims to be Catholic - practically none of them
are devout or even believe what the religion says. Why would I want to bring my kids to a church where everyone is living together, having
pre-marital sex, pro-choice and don't even believe half of the tenets of the church? I know church is a hospital for sinners and everyone should be welcome, but it is also a community of like-minded individuals.

I have been to 5 Catholic weddings where the people are living together and promise to want to raise their kids in the faith when they know they are not going to go to church. I just don't get it. Seems like a joke to me and almost sacreligious.

Catholicism has killed itself by being so tolerant of people who don't really believe the religion.

Mormons have it right. It demands so much of you to be a Mormon, you are either devout or you aren't. And if you're not devout, you would
not claim to be Mormon.

[Rod again:] That question -- "Why would I want to bring my kids to a church where [the worshipers] don't even believe half of the tenets of the church?" -- haunts me, literally, day and night as a Catholic father.

Posted by: Rod Dreher at Apr 20, 2005 5:26:19 PM

OK,let's start again. Jackboots vs. kum-ba-yah.
Winner take nothing.

Posted by: WRY at Apr 20, 2005 5:27:04 PM

From rebecca Nappi's "Journey to Vatican II" blog:

If we frame this pope selection as the conservatives winning and the liberals losing, it sets up a dynamic that will widen the church "schism" even more. This morning on the Don Imus show on MSNBC, Catholic League president William Donohue was positively gloating. He was saying how "progressives" now have the choice to accept the harder line or basically choose another, more liberal faith tradition. It reminded me of the strident rhetoric in the 1960s by the hawks: America, love it or leave it. Hey Mr. Donohue, I wanted to say, we're not going anywhere. We are church, too.

Let me go one record as saying that Mr Donohue is but one example of a Right Wing Catholic who possesses a meanness of spirit and vindictive judgemental streak more suitable to the Pharisees condemned by Jesus than to a loving Christian.

How do you people manage to be vindictive, mean and defensive even in your hour of triumph?

Posted by: daniel duffy at Apr 20, 2005 5:35:28 PM

And as far as kicking people out, it will be imperative that the soul-destroyers (the devil's 5th column) that exists within the church in all it's institutions will have to be removed from any positions of influence and authority. They can always repent but should be considered damaged goods.

So Loren, would you care to start by kicking out Cardinal Law?

Posted by: daniel duffy at Apr 20, 2005 5:37:27 PM

Daniel:

Is William Donohue running this blog? Is he commenting? Then who are "you people?" Was my post evocative of what Donohue said? Please explain, preferably in an email to me.

Posted by: amy at Apr 20, 2005 5:38:09 PM

The text of the homily in Italian and English.

The only reference to "smaller and more faithful to the Gospel" in this homily might be:

And we must bring a fruit that will remain. All people want to leave a mark which lasts. But what remains? Money does not. Buildings do not, nor books. After a certain amount of time, whether long or short, all these things disappear. The only thing which remains forever is the human soul, the human person created by God for eternity. The fruit which remains then is that which we have sowed in human souls - love, knowledge, a gesture capable of touching the heart, words which open the soul to joy in the Lord. Let us then go to the Lord and pray to him, so that he may help us bear fruit which remains.

The article Amy cites has at the end: "Ratzinger has written that the Catholic Church of the 21st century must likely reconcile itself to being smaller and less powerful in geopolitics while leaving less room for internal dissent." But there are no references.

I have seen various references (like John Allen) which say things like:

Ratzinger’s governing metaphor for the church of the future is the mustard seed – it may have to be smaller to be faithful, what he calls a “creative minority.”

But still no clear references.

The "creative minority" phrase seems to come up most in Ratzinger's talks on Europe, such as this reported in Chiesa.it:

"We do not know what will happen in Europe in the future. The Charter of fundamental rights may be a first step, a sign that Europe is deliberately seeking again its soul. In this, we must agree with Toynbee that the destiny of a society always depends upon creative minorities. Christian believers should conceive of themselves as such a creative minority, and help Europe to recover the best of its heritage, and thus be at the service of all of humanity."

I just don't see where this comes to any sort of exclusivism.

Could somebody provide some clear references to where Pope Benedict XVI (or as Cardinal Ratzinger) actually spoke about the church smaller or remnant in an exclusionary sense?
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Oh, I see Rod posted something already about smaller. But even there is seems to be talking about future growth ("springtime--a new life in very convinced persons with joy of the faith") in terms of quality rather than future growth in quantity.

I still don't see any exclusivism or asking for anyone to leave. I do see a call for deeper conversion (a very Benedictine idea, by the way).

Posted by: Zhou De-Ming at Apr 20, 2005 5:39:56 PM

Started this Catholic war is.

Posted by: Yoda at Apr 20, 2005 5:41:29 PM

The ideal outcome, of course, would be for "bad Catholics," "cafeteria Catholics," or whatever you want to call them to become true Catholics. I suppose that for them to leave the Church is better than for them to corrupt it from within, but it should never be regarded as the ideal outcome.

Posted by: James Kabala at Apr 20, 2005 5:41:59 PM

Sorry Amy, I should have written "How do those people..."

Posted by: daniel duffy at Apr 20, 2005 5:43:59 PM

Who isn't a bad Catholic, James?

Posted by: amy at Apr 20, 2005 5:44:19 PM

Now, why did this come to mind?

(a song by Tom Lehrer)

Oh, the white folks hate the black folks,
And the black folks hate the white folks;
To hate all but the right folks
Is an old established rule.

But during National Brotherhood Week,
National Brotherhood Week,
Lena Horne and Sheriff Clark are dancing cheek to cheek.
It's fun to eulogize
The people you despise
As long as you don't let 'em in your school.

Oh, the poor folks hate the rich folks,
And the rich folks hate the poor folks.
All of my folks hate all of your folks,
It's American as apple pie.

But during National Brotherhood Week,
National Brotherhood Week,
New Yorkers love the Puerto Ricans 'cause it's very chic.
Step up and shake the hand
Of someone you can't stand,
You can tolerate him if you try!

Oh, the Protestants hate the Catholics
And the Catholics hate the Protestants,
And the Hindus hate the Moslems,
And everybody hates the Jews!

But during National Brotherhood Week,
National Brotherhood Week,
It's National Everyone-Smile-At-One-Another-Hood Week.
Be nice to people who
Are inferior to you.
It's only for a week, so have no fear;
Be grateful that it doesn't last all year!

Posted by: WRY at Apr 20, 2005 5:47:52 PM

Amy,

I think your post misses a very important pastoral point. There must be a different way we approach the folks who struggle with and have doubts about Church teaching but try to be obediant and the people who outrightly reject Church teaching. Someone very close to me struggles with same-sex attraction and the Church's position on homosexuality,. She doesn't understand the teaching, she struggles with it, but she also tries to be an obediant daughter of the Church, and assents to the Church even in this very, very hard issue. It is an honor and a blessing for me to know her. But there are others who reject Church teaching completely and have neither the will nor the desire to to be obediant and to let the Church teach them. How ought we to approach these different types of people, pastorally? Before giving my own ideas, I'd like to hear others'.

Posted by: Tom Harmon at Apr 20, 2005 5:54:42 PM

My take on this question is that we're probably in for a smaller church one way or another. (aside... whatever side is perceived to be with less influence will blame the other). Most churches I attend have a pretty high average age. As these folks leave us, there will be fewer folks in the pews (by their choice). If at this point, we are a muddled mess of contradictions or heresy, it will be hard to come up with much of an excuse for even existing. In this situation, things go from bad to worse.

If on the other hand, we find a reasonable common orthodoxy to unite around, there will be a faith to hold onto and rejoice in even if we are an embattled minority. This is what I think BXVI means by the mustard seed.

From this mustard seed, a vibrant orthodoxy will be able to evangelize because in opposition to a post-modern world in pain, we will have the only real answers.

Keep in mind that although these events are described in sequence, there is no reason that they cannot happen simultaneously.

Posted by: SiliconValleySteve at Apr 20, 2005 5:55:59 PM

Well, that's funny, WRY, but it's only meaningful in this context if the Catholic faith is not about holiness, but about everybody getting together.

This matters to me profoundly, not because I relish the thought of booting anybody out of the Church, but because I want to become a saint, and I want my children to be saints -- by which I mean I want us to become holy and go to heaven -- and it is hard for that to happen in a Church where the only thing that seems to matter is that warm bodies show up.

I could survive it on my own, perhaps, through gritted teeth. But I consider nothing I am asked to do more important than helping my sons become holy Christians. I hope it doesn't come to the point where I feel that I have no choice but to leave Catholicism to preserve the Christian faith of my children. If you knew how badly I dreaded the prospect of that day...

Posted by: Rod Dreher at Apr 20, 2005 5:57:57 PM

Well, the NatCathRep lead editorial for April 29 (how's that for prophecy?) says:

The record may be unsettling, but we look to the future with hope, trusting that Benedict XVI will moderate an earlier view he spoke that accepting a smaller church, a "creative minority," would be preferable to a church in which every jot of doctrine is not perfectly received.

Again, there is no reference. But, as I mentioned above, the "creative minority" idea is borrowed from historian Toynbee. It is not talking about throwing out people who don't have "robotic" (to use NatCathRep's image) obedience to doctrine.

I have a feeling that this is just taken out of context (because the context is never referenced), and being used as "scare tactics" to smear our new Holy Father Benedict XVI, painting him as someone ready to start throwing people overboard (or have them walk the plank) from the Barque of Peter.

I just don't see that. I see him calling for inward conversion more than outward growth of numbers and organizations and buildings and powers.

Posted by: Zhou De-Ming at Apr 20, 2005 5:58:26 PM

"... What struck me today, frankly, as I was scrubbing potatoes - was that the "orthodox" sometimes want to have it both ways. They tout the power and beauty of orthodoxy as a force that is attractive - orthodox dioceses have more vocations, orthodox religious orders are growing, mainline churches are in decline, etc.

But then they hop on Ratzinger's remnant allusions with vigor, as well.

I suppose it could be both ways, but I can't work that out right now."

Trees are pruned that they may yield healthier fruit more abundantly. The weeds in fields and gardens are extripated or killed in order that the good harvest be as abundant as possible....

There is no doubt whatsoever that the thing that ought to be first desired is the conversion of the erring and sinful. But when they prove themselves intractable in their errors, impervious to grace, and determined to poison others besides themselves in the cause of their own wicked self-justification, then they become only chaff fit for the fire. It is not just little children about whom our Lord was concerned when He spoke of millstones for those who scandalize the "little ones."

This gets back to an earlier post here today about the intended spirit of Vatican II. The Apostles themselves did not hesitate to condemn and even excommunicate when milder forms of correction did not suffice to redress emerging errors and problematic Christians. So, then, did their successors down the centuries. How did human nature so radically change that this became a pastorally unwise strategy in 1962?

Posted by: Charles M. de Nunzio at Apr 20, 2005 6:00:10 PM

Rod,
The post that you shared from your friend was very relevant. Struggling with sin is one thing, but rejecting the teachings of the Church outright is another.

Tom Harmon is right...there is an urgent need to evangelize the pew-sitters. I think it needs to start from the pulpit, and could take the form of homilies about the authority of the Church to speak in Jesus' name...based off of Matthew 16:18-19, Luke 10:16 or other passages.

In the absence of this, it is easy for the pew-sitter to make his own opinion paramount. To be blunt, 90% of Catholics don't really have any solid idea of what the Catholic Church teaches about Herself, and we all swim in a Protestant/individualist sea. This means that, by default, they are going to view the Church through that Protestant/individualist prism, i.e. "I'll take all the input and then decide for myself. *I* am the master of the universe."

Posted by: Dave Mueller at Apr 20, 2005 6:07:12 PM

Comment from a former Catholic (now a conservative Lutheran). I'm possibly an example of how lukewarm believers inside the Catholic Church damage it. I spent much of my High School and College years around very lukewarm Catholics and heard a lot about the Big Bang, and how the Bible might not be true. Clever discussions about how the Red Sea really didn't "part." Knew almost nobody of deep devotion to the faith, and almost no one who attended church regularly except my much older relatives, who complained about the Latin being gone. Heard nothing about the Bible after 5th grade CCD (except the readings in church, of course). The last Catholic Mass I attended had the priest using "Her" to refer to God. That was the last straw. At 20, I decided I had to find a faith that preached the Bible, studied it and didn't seem filled with people who acted ashamed of their church life. I look back at that time and believe I acted in great haste and would probably do things differently, but the recollections of how lukewarm everything felt is stark, especially when I compare it to most of my Protestant worship experiences in conservative congregations, where Jesus is proclaimed crisply and solidly. There certainly is a degree of lukewarmness and liberal weirdness in *every* denomination, including all the Lutheran ones I've been members in, but when the lukewarmness overwhelms the core doctrines, it's huge trouble for the serious believers. I truly mean no offense here; I hope no one takes this message as Catholic-bashing; it's not at all meant as that. Just my experience of 15 years ago that led to my exodus out.

Posted by: Mark Thompson-Kolar at Apr 20, 2005 6:09:49 PM

Alot to respond to in this thread.

The Church, in praxis, has always been composed of believers, half-believers, and hangers-on. The difference today, however, is that the half-believers and hangers-on claim official status in the Church, as if partial acceptance of the creed or the moral doctrine was sufficient for both salvation and 'good' Catholic status.

Rod, concerning liturgy, I could not agree more with your non-Catholic friend. I have been a resident priest in three different parishes (I am assigned full-time to Catholic education) over the span of the past nine years, and the liturgical life in all three has been strictly ho-hum: solemnities celebrated as if it were a Tuesday morning Mass in Ordinary time. No progressive solemnity here. For most Catholics, their sole contact with the Church is Sunday Mass (if even that). How sad that in most parishes the usual experience of Catholics is a banal, 'get them in and get them out' liturgy. I can readily understand why some of the faithful either fall away or find their spiritual nourishment elsewhere.

Posted by: Fr. Ronald M. Vierling at Apr 20, 2005 6:14:26 PM

I don't think that Benedict XVI would deny that the "missionary thrust ... belongs to the very nature of the Christian life." I don't think that he would deny that this means that we must work for Christian unity, since Jesus prayed, "that they may all be one...so that the world may believe that you have sent me" (Jn 17:21). I don't think that he would deny that this also means that we must actively recognize the "'seeds of the Word' present in various customs and cultures," since they are preparation for a "full maturity in Christ" (Redemptoris Missio).

We must, then, hope and work for a larger Church because we believe, concerning the Gospel, "all people are searching for it, albeit at times in a confused way, and have a right to know the value of this gift and to approach it freely" (ibid). We cannot avoid the sometimes disconcerting, risky, and unpopular obligations of proclamation, ecumenism, and interreligious dialogue in order to concentrate on some sort of institutional hygiene or security.

I believe that Benedict XVI is saying that we simply must realize these obligations without being preoccupied about our immediate success, which, at least in Western Europe, might remain maddeningly elusive in the short term. There is something very profound about this.

In his enthronement sermon as Archbishop of Canterbury, Rowan Williams said something on which I have spent a great deal of time reflecting:

"About twelve years ago, I was visiting an Orthodox monastery, and was taken to see one of the smaller and older chapels. It was a place intensely full of the memory and reality of prayer. The monk showing me around pulled the curtain from in front of the sanctuary, and there inside was a plain altar and one simple picture of Jesus, darkened and rather undistinguished. But for some reason at that moment it was as if the veil of the temple was torn in two: I saw as I had never seen the simple fact of Jesus at the heart of all our words and worship, behind the curtain of our anxieties and our theories, our struggles and our suspicion. Simply there; nothing anyone can do about it, there he is as he has promised to be till the world's end."

Jesus is "simply there; nothing anyone can do about it," and we are to remain faithful to this Presence, even if our efforts are not yielding positive newspaper headlines - even if the Church appears to be shrinking. If we have learned anything over the past few days it is that Benedict XVI is not a Nazi. Interestingly, Fr James Alison has written about how Christian liturgy differs from Nazi ritual (the Nuremberg rally), because we recognize that Jesus is "simply there."

Fr Alison writes, "In a Nuremberg rally the purpose is to create a sense of togetherness, of new belonging, so as to inspire something to happen in the future." But, in Christian worship, "The struggle is over; the kingdom has been inaugurated and obtained." Alison continues, "In the Nuremberg model, the central apotheosis has to be produced by careful orchestration, a deliberate build up of fascination and mimetic intensity in the worshipping crowd, so that in their eyes the Führer really does acquire an aura and a divinity." But Christian worship believes that Jesus is "simply there," and does not need a manufactured achievement nor an apotheosis. The Nuremberg model also builds up "the unanimity of those who feel themselves victimized," through the "propagation of a comforting myth" about having been betrayed by scapegoats - Jews, Gypsies, homosexuals. Christian worship strips away our "comforting myths," by revealing that our scapegoat was the Son of God.

So Nazi (and, perhaps more generally, "pagan") worship needs to be confirmed by the sense of ineluctable forces, the promise of a mythic future, a ritual apotheosis and a consoling revelation, all held together with chthonic enthusiasm. Thus, we have Bruderschaft, marching bands, uniforms, and intoxicating music. Christian worship disdains all of that - we know that Jesus Christ is "simply there," and all we ever need to say is "Lord, I am not worthy that thou shouldest come under my roof, but speak the word only and my soul shall be healed."

This means that we can remain faithful as we continue our proclamation and dialogue, even if the Church seems to be presently growing smaller. We should not wish this, but it should not disrupt our faith in the Risen Lord either. Jesus is "simply there; nothing anyone can do about it, there he is as he has promised to be till the world's end," even if the crowds and media are absent.

Thanks.

Neil

Posted by: Neil at Apr 20, 2005 6:15:09 PM

I suspect that Rod may well end up leaving the Church. Not that I think such a move would be necessary to raise his sons as holy Christians. The Church is far from perfect but there are clearly places within the Church (even if they are sometimes few and far between) where he could find a community sufficiently orthodox to preserve his kids' faith. (I have 3 small children, and I think about this issue often.) And if he were to leave, it would be a real loss to the Church. I fear he will leave, however, because he seems obsessed with the imperfections in the Church and the imperfect people in the pews next to him, to the point that he is losing nearly all appreciation for the good that is actually present in the Church. His intellectual love for the truth of the Catholic faith is becoming a stumbling block for believing what Jesus promised -- that the gates of Hell would not prevail against the Church. Not against the "faith", mind you, but against the Church. Leaving the Church to save one's faith is unthinkable to a Catholic.

Posted by: Cornelius AMDG at Apr 20, 2005 6:15:50 PM

Rod,
It matters to me profoundly too. I have a little boy and I want him to grow up in the faith. But I will NOT tell him that Father is a jerk. Or that he'd better watch it because some priest might abuse him. Or that the bishops are all bad and that the people in the pew beside him are hypocritical subversives. You really do give the impression sometimes that this is what your children must hear. I can't imagine how they could hear that and remain Catholic.
I know I don't have to tell you that you are your children's first teacher in faith. May I suggest that they will not form their attitudes by how well you teach the catechism but by how they see you express you own attitudes toward the church?
You mention leaving the church. Would you allow me to ask - in love and charity - whether one who makes this statement is already halfway out the door? Is everything really riding on Benedict XVI? I'm afraid you are going to be disappointed. I don't say that with glee, because I want no one to leave the church. But Benedict cannot do it alone. He needs us. He needs our joy lived out in the world. I truly believe many positive things are going to come from this pontificate.

Posted by: WRY at Apr 20, 2005 6:19:04 PM

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