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May 24, 2005

The Susan Torres Fund

Last week, I blogged about Susan Torres, the sister-in-law of Justin Torres of The Fact Is. 17 weeks into pregnancy, she had a stroke, and is now brain-dead, on life support. They are trying to sustain her until the baby is big enough to be born, in early July. There is now a fund set up for tax-deductible contributions. Here's the address, and the details of the situation follow in the extended post.

>The Susan M. Torres Fund
>P.O. Box 34105
>Washington, D.C. 20043-0105

June 16, 2005: For a more recent, updated post, please click here.

>Dear Friends:
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>Last week, you received an email about Susan Torres and her unborn baby, who are both fighting for their lives. This week, we are asking for your tax-deductible donations to assist in this cause. Can you help "pay for a day" of care for Susan and her baby?
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>That's our goal, to raise money for the unreimbursed cost of all 56 planned days of Susan's care-and if possible, for the care of the baby after that. If you can make a donation of $1,500-the amount per day of care not covered by the family's insurance-we can reach that goal. But any amount is incredibly helpful and gratefully appreciated.
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>To make a tax-deductible donation to the Susan M. Torres Fund, send a check to:
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>The Susan M. Torres Fund
>P.O. Box 34105
>Washington, D.C. 20043-0105
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>Friends of the Torres family have established the Susan M. Torres Fund to help defray the enormous medical bills that this family faces. Though the family has some limited medical insurance coverage, unreimbursed costs are expected to run in excess of $1,500 per day for Susan alone-not to mention care for the baby, God willing, after July 11.
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>Susan M. (Rollin) Torres
>May 12, 2002
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>If you're receiving this email for the first time, here's the story. On May 6, Susan Torres-a 26-year-old vaccine researcher at NIH; mother of a two-year-old son, Peter; graduate of the University of Dallas; and parishioner at St. Rita's Catholic Church in Alexandria-collapsed of a brain hemorrhage. She was rushed to the Virginia Hospital Center in Arlington, where she has been diagnosed with stage four melanoma and is brain dead with no hope of recovery.
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>Right now, doctors are fighting to keep her alive through artificial respiration and other means until at least July 11 (the feast of St. Benedict), to give her 18-week-old baby a fighting chance at life.
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>Your prayers are helping: Last Friday, an ultrasound confirmed that the baby remains healthy, and Susan's situation has stabilized as she continues to regulate her own blood pressure and heart rate.
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>Contributions to the Susan M. Torres Fund are tax-deductible and the Torres and Rollin families are extraordinarily grateful to the group Faith and Action, which has generously agreed to administer the fund under its benevolence account. Faith and Action is a not-for-profit religious/charitable corporation determined to be tax exempt under IRC section 501(c)3.
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>We hope that you will be able to make a donation to help this family. Any amount is appreciated. But mostly, we hope that you will continue to pray for Susan, Jason, Peter, and Baby Torres, that God brings forth the best possible outcome to this terrible tragedy.
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>Justin Torres

June 16, 2005: For a more recent, updated post, please click here.

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Comments

Amy, I'm working on getting out the information to pro-lifers in my city. I hope I can drum up a response.

Posted by: Eileen R at May 24, 2005 1:28:50 PM

Can the family get the story out locally through a TV station or "human interest" newspaper columnist?

Posted by: Sandra Miesel at May 24, 2005 8:14:36 PM

Perhaps we could pray for the interecession of St.Giana Molla...

Posted by: peter wilson at May 24, 2005 10:24:41 PM

Peter,

That's a great idea! The perfect patron.

St. Gianna, pray for Susan Torres and her family, and most especially her unborn child. As her life blessed those around her, may God also bring blessings and life from her death. Lift the life of her unborn child before the throne of our most Loving Father, that He may strengthen and aid the child, that the child might live and give God glory with his life.

Heavenly Father, draw Susan's family close to you and strengthen them in this most difficult time. Provide for them in their time of need, we pray. Touch our hearts and teach us generousity, so that we may be Your hands and feet and do your will.

Father, we never know the time or the place of our end or your judgment. Prepare our hearts to rely on You, and teach us again to think on You now, so that when our time comes, we will run into Your open arms with joy. Welcome into your kingdom Susan Torres, and have mercy on her soul.

Amen.

Posted by: Kate at May 25, 2005 9:21:10 AM

I'm a friend of the Torres family, and just want to thank everyone for their kindness.

Please keep up the prayers. Every day brings a new crisis for the Torres family. The doctors are truly in uncharted territory here, so it's a true struggle to keep Susan stable. The prayers are working, just don't stop now!

In response to Sandra Miesel, the Arlington Catholic Herald should be publishing an article in their next issue, and we hope to be getting wide media attention in the next 2 weeks or so. Keep your eyes and ears open!

Posted by: Dan Purtill at May 26, 2005 9:12:04 AM

I just saw the information regarding Susan and her baby and her suffering husband on EWTN. I will be sending some funds soon.
May God Bless
Kathy McAvinue

Posted by: Kathy at Jun 3, 2005 8:10:27 PM

Hello there,
I was very moved when I read the story about Susan this morning in USA Today. I work for a UK television company who make award winning medical and science documentaries. I was just wondering if I could help in any way - perhaps by making a short film about the family we could bring the nation's attention to their plight? Or maybe we could contribute to the fund in some way.
Please contact me to talk about this as we have a long standing reputation in this area and would love to be of some assistance. My e-mail is nhuggett@redbackfilms.tv and my telephone number is 0044 207 478 7399 - I can always call people back to save the phone bill.

I am sending love and wishes to all the family.

God bless,

Nicky Huggett

Posted by: Nicky Huggett at Jun 16, 2005 4:39:09 AM

Does anyone know if Jason is receiving any letters or e-mails. I read in an article that he is struggling with his faith. This is understandable. I think if people could write or e-mail him words of encouragement it would help him a great deal. Or at least if someone could print off what others have written so he could read the encouraging words, he might find some new strength.

If someone could let him know that Elizabeth,(who he doesn't know) from Missouri, and her friends are praying for him, I would appreciate it.
Thank You and God Bless You

Posted by: Elizabeth at Jun 16, 2005 8:35:19 AM

I just read Susan's story on the interet and want to offer my condolences. My mother-in-law is in the final stages of her battle with brain cancer so on some small level we understand the problems associated with such diseases.

We will be praying for Jason, Peter and the new baby and hope that God will be watching over them.

Posted by: Kelly at Jun 16, 2005 9:52:01 AM

I was so moved by the story. I am so so sorry for Torres family. I had a family member that died of Brain Cancer. She also had melanoma. She left a beautiful family behind. I know it is hard not be mad with God at this point, but I pray that you remain strong and keep your faith and know that she will be going home to rest with God. I cannot offer any money at this time, but if there is anything else that I can do please let me know. I pray that you are able to have this child without any complications. God Bless you and your family

Posted by: Melissa at Jun 16, 2005 10:24:45 AM

I just read about the Susan Torres ordeal and I felt immediately moved to send out my love and prayers to Susan, Jason, Peter, baby, and the entire family that is going through this. Hang on to your faith in God. His divine plan is always perfect. Hang in there... all of you. Love and guiding angels are all around you.

My love and prayers are with you.

Viki

Posted by: Viki Posidis at Jun 16, 2005 10:31:37 AM

I will pray for everyone involved. I will pray that the baby is born healthy and happy. I will pray that Susan's husband has strength of spirit. I will pray that the cancer does not spread. When all is done, I will pray that Susan goes peacefully with God.

Posted by: Mary Rienzo at Jun 16, 2005 10:35:55 AM

I am glad to see the story hitting mainstream
( USA Today article on yahoo homepage ).

Hopefully this helps out with the finances. I am planning on helping out myself...best wishes for the families involved - especially Jason and the children...be strong .

Posted by: james idler at Jun 16, 2005 10:40:09 AM

As a 34 year old Northern VA father of two (with a 20 month old boy, and 2 month old boy), my deepest sympathies go out to Jason and his family. I plan on helping out financially as I can't imagine the emotional or financial toll this situation has taken on him. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Posted by: Kevin at Jun 16, 2005 12:36:01 PM

My heart & prayers pour out to the Torres family. I'm a Stage III Melanoma survivor & mother of three. I hop Jason knows he's making the right decision!

Posted by: Danielle Dahm at Jun 16, 2005 12:39:29 PM

I just read about the Torres family on AOL News webpage. My thoughts and prayers are with them and have faith that God is with them at every moment.

Posted by: Chanda Rosales at Jun 16, 2005 1:34:09 PM

I am very moved after reading an article about Jason and Susan today on AOL.

I believe in a woman's right to choose what the path her body and her life takes, AND I believe life is precious and sacred. I believe Jason is making the right choice in doing everything possible to save his baby's life.

God bless Jason, Susan and their children. I will keep them in my heart and my prayers.

Posted by: Jan Young at Jun 16, 2005 3:03:36 PM

Jason, I know how hard it is to keep faith in light of so much pain. Been there - done that - still doing. But this is the time when we, as Cahtolics, receive the proof of what our faith is all about. When we ae at our worst - and life seems to be throwing us every bad curve... that is when we have to fight to just simply have faith in God and Jesus Christ. If it helps, think about all of those who are writing and giving of time and money and prayers... although the devil is using this tough time to get to try to get to you - God is using it stronger to gaather an army in your defense. to protect you and your family from the devil. Acroos the world prayers are being said every minute which is bringing so many closer to God.. find peace in knowing that Susan would be very thankful that in her own way she brought so many closer to God through this tragedy. I think she would see that she is kind of a jmodern day martyr or saint... through hers - and yours suffering - more people reach out to HIm.
mine and my own family prayers will be added to the many that will form about you and will support you during this time. Allow all of us across the world to carry you for now.

Lisa Holleman & Family
Our Lady of the Valley Church
Pahrump Nevada

Posted by: Lisa Holleman at Jun 16, 2005 6:41:34 PM

Dear Jason,

I cried a lot when I read your story. It hits so close to home for me. I am not experienced with cancer but I am experienced with very premature babies. I went into preterm labor at 19 weeks and layed in a hospital bed for a whole month before they could no longer hold my contractions at bay. I gave birth at 23 weeks and 5 days gestation. It was the worst nightmare of my life. I have seen things that no one should ever see. I have seen innocent suffering that is unimaginable and in order not to be angry every day of my life about it, because there is NEVER a good enough reason to warrant that kind of suffering in a little baby (or your wife!), that I have written off any possibility of there being a diety that is both all loving and all powerful. Everyone is different in how they deal with grief and it is hard when we think that life is about reward and punishement and that the bad things only happen to "other people". This isn't the case, we discover, when the bad things happen to us and we know we have done our best to live honestly and honorably. Sometimes stuff happens. I don't know the reasons, if there really are reasons to everything. I think people say things like that to make themselves feel better and that's fine really. What makes one person feel better doesn't make another person feel better.

I guess I didn't have anything really uplifting to say, since I am still reeling from my own losses. Two of my babies died two years ago and one died a year ago. Then my husband left me when his pain was too unbearable. I hope it wasn't bad for me to share that. I have so many hopes for you. I wish so many things for you and your two children. I hope that baby can get past at least 26 weeks and not have too many problems. Just please do this... If that baby has problems, please let people help you to take care of him/her. It will grind you to a nub and that doesn't do anyone any good. I had to learn this the hard way. People like to feel like they can do something to help, especially in a situation where people feel powerless to fix things.

My spirituality hangs by a thread but it is a strong thread. I have to believe there's a chance I will meet my children again some day and that me living a good life will enable me to see them. That IS my will to live now. We don't have the same beliefs but I felt a connection to your story so I hope my wording has come across in a positive way for you.

I wish you all that you hope for yourself and your family. I hope your situation turns out better than mine did.

Posted by: Amber Jenkins at Jun 17, 2005 9:43:29 AM

I wrote and typed a letter about Susan and posted it in our local gym. I am praying that others will read it and sign on to the website to donate. I hope that everything goes well for the Torres family. You are in my prayers.
Beki

Posted by: Beki at Jun 17, 2005 9:49:10 AM

My first babyboy Reilly was born at 31 weeks and 4 days, many doctors told me his life will never be of a normal child because he had a 5th degree brain bleed and many other problems. However he is now starting kindergarden, and as a proud moma I think he is smarted then many kids his age. I hope this can give you some hope, the best advise i can give is doctors are not always right. all my prays and hope is with you, God Bless.

http://community.webshots.com/user/reilly_swain

Posted by: Kellie_tilley@hotmail.com at Jun 17, 2005 1:36:19 PM

To Jason and the Torres family: My husband and I were choir teachers of Susan at Klein Oak High School in Spring, TX. We are so saddened by the news of Susan's death. We both hope that you will have the strength to see you through this tragedy and that the baby will be born healthy. We will certainly be sending a donation and contacting others in this area. Her junior high choir teacher, Debra Beam alerted me to the fact that it was indeed our former student. I am so sorry for your loss.

Judy Boyter

Posted by: Judy Hurt Boyter at Jun 17, 2005 10:27:53 PM

Jason,

During this difficult time, my prayer is that you will continually call upon the name of the Lord. For God is near to those who have a broken and contrite heart. May God allow your precious gift in Susan's womb continue to thrive.

Thank you for honoring your wife's wishes, and choosing God's path.....the one of life.

Love in Christ,

Stephanie Hunley

Posted by: Stephanie Hunley at Jun 19, 2005 10:33:27 PM

how could people not be moved by this familys plight. Warm and heartfelt wishes

Posted by: Annette at Jun 20, 2005 6:02:44 PM

Jason and family,

I am so sorry to hear about the daily struggles and cross you have to bear ... but perhaps you do no look at it from the perspective of "carrying a cross". You are extremely brave and I think a lessor person in your position would not be able to deal with this quite as eloquently as you have. I am getting married soon and my fiance and I went to the Arlington diocese marriage prep this weekend and heard a story about a hockey player from Canada who stood by his wife through everything she went through being terminally ill and how he would not leave her side for anyhthing because of the marriage covenant he made with her before God - even caring for her day to day for years on end. You are right up there with him. God bless you for dealing with thiseartbreaking circumstance like a true hero. You and your son and the rest of your family are in my prayers.

Posted by: Mary Hayes at Jun 25, 2005 11:03:22 PM

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