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September 15, 2005

Ready to Rumble

The NYTimes on the seminary visitation, focusing, of course, on the homosexuality issue.

The Rev. Donald B. Cozzens, a former seminary rector who set off a controversy five years ago when he published a book asserting that "the priesthood is or is becoming a gay profession," said in an interview yesterday that many in the church had come to accept his observation.

But he said he was concerned that the seminary review would lead the church to ask celibate faculty members and seminarians to withdraw.

"That would be a major mistake from my perspective," said Father Cozzens, who teaches in the religious studies department at John Carroll University in Cleveland. "First, I think it's unfair if not unjust for committed gay seminarians and faculty who are leading chaste lives. And secondly, I don't know how you can really enforce that."

[snip]

A 12-page document with instructions for the review is now being distributed to seminarians and faculty members. It asks whether the doctrine on the priesthood presented by the seminary is "solidly based on the church's Magisterium," or teaching, and whether teachers and seminarians "accept this teaching." Among the other questions are these:

¶"Is there a clear process for removing from the seminary faculty members who dissent from the authoritative teaching of the church or whose conduct does not provide good example to future priests?"

¶"Is the seminary free from the influences of New Age and eclectic spirituality?"

¶"Do the seminarians or faculty members have concerns about the moral life of those living in the institution? (This question must be answered)."

¶"Is there evidence of homosexuality in the seminary? (This question must be answered)."

The questionnaire also asks whether faculty members "watch out for signs of particular friendships."

The Rev. Thomas Baima, provost of the largest seminary in the United States, St. Mary of the Lake, in Chicago, where the Vatican is sending nine interviewers, said such questions were no surprise.

"The reason we're having an apostolic visitation now is precisely in the aftermath of the clerical sexual-abuse scandal," Father Baima said. "Issues about screening our candidates, about formation for celibacy, about how we teach moral theology are going to get more attention than how we teach church history."

Open comments? Close comments...hmmmm.

Well, we'll open them, but try not to rehash the same converations that we've had for four years on this.

My view:

Outsiders to the system really don't understand what the last 30 years in seminary formation have been like. In the reaction against the former system, which was perceived as producing powder kegs of all orientations, ready to explode, seminaries became very open places, and it wasn't just about homosexuals. Along with a friend, I visited DC in the late 70's - among other things, a friend of hers was a student at TC, and we knew some Paulists. Out in Dupont Circle one night, we saw a couple of seminarians - can't remember which ones or from where - with their girlfriends. In many seminaries, dating was at the very least not discouraged. Concerns about celibacy, expressed by men themselves, were met with either a dismissal, that somehow time/ordination/spiritual life would take care of things, or to just not worry about it. There was such confusion, and it wasn't just simple licentiousness or (as the meme goes) being told that celibacy wasn't going to be mandatory for very long anyway (I don't know if that was really articulated after JPII's election..I doubt it). After the huge exodus of the 60's and early 70's, the panic started to set in, and, contrary to what you might think, seminaries put a premium on healthy heterosexual men, and did anything they could to retain them, including dismissing their own concerns about their ability to lead a celibate life and, in the end, their vocation.

Combine that with theological confusion, with the abandonment of structure..and you have big problems, which are about far more than a homosexual subculture.

As the American Church gets healthier, the seminaries get healthier, and vice-versa. The question of who is a good candidate - who has an authentic vocation - continues to be difficult, though. I agree that those who embrace a "gay" identity as defined by American culture should not be admitted to seminary, because most of the time, that self-definition is formed more by American culture than by Church teaching. Andrew Sullivan, for example, is complaining long and loud about this, but the truth is that, judging from his previous writings, Sullivan doesn't have any problem with, for example, sexual promiscuity, obsessions and fetishes as lived out in the gay subculture, sees all of that beyond the pale of possible judgment, and for all of his hopes for the positive impact of gay families (which I believe is sincere), has absolutely no connection with the ways that Catholic tradition has conceptualized and thought about sexuality. You're laughing because you're saying "Of course," but I'm making the point because there's a veneer of tradition that some would like to try to pretend exists: that the self-identified, political gay position is capable of simply espousing gay marriage, for example, or the morality of love-inspired homosexual acts, and at the same time retaining the rest of traditional Catholic morality underneath it all.

I say...that position can't and, isn't really interested. So for that reason, sure, the self-identified political gay man shouldn't be in seminary.

But should the man who struggles with same-sex attraction and seeks to live chastely, who buys the whole package of Catholic moral teaching, be put into that category? Absolutely not. To me, that's insane, and truth be told, it's not that difficult to tell the difference. And if you think that your list of favorite, orthodox priests through the ages doesn't include at least one who's struggled with same-sex attraction, you're mistaken, and I'll bet you real money. Not that we can prove it, of course.

You want your manly, virile bombastically hetero priests? Here's the news flash: Hasn't always been so. My personal opinion is simply that the enormous exodus of mostly hetereosexual priests in the 1960's and 70's simply made the presence of the others more pronounced, therefore putting a self-fulfilling prophecy into motion - turning that around, and balancing out the ranks is going to take a long time, and, in this culture in which a man doesn't have to be ordained to study theology, to serve, to engage in pastoral ministry, in which the vocation of marriage is celebrated...that's difficult. Most of us know scads of men who had a year or two in seminary, but who left because they fell in love, because they decided that their real vocation was family life, etc. You can try to be all ethereal about "vocation" and "call" if you like, but the truth is, sixty years ago, more of those men would have stayed in seminary, just like sixty years ago, half the women I know, now active in Church life, would probably have been religious - yours truly, included. Culture matters.

So my point? Seminary visitation is sorely needed for a host of reasons, and here's hoping and praying this one goes well. Men who self-define as "gay" according to American cultural norms? They have no place in seminary, and nor do any men who buy into American cultural sexual norms. There's also no place in seminary for those who are obviously overcompensating - the Daughters of Trent, as they were called, who are tightly wound and ready to spring under their cassocks. Duh. But beyond that - there's a whole lot of gray, and good men discerning. But if a seminary environment is rooted in solid formation in Catholic teaching, if the support system of the hierarchy is oriented that way, then the self-selection becomes a little more frequent.

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Comments

There's also no place in seminary for those who are obviously overcompensating - the Daughters of Trent, as they were called, who are tightly wound and ready to spring under their cassocks.

I'm not sure exactly what you mean by that, but it is precisely such a bias against piety that lead us to the current situation.

Posted by: B Knotts at Sep 15, 2005 9:41:34 AM

B. Knotts:

"Daughters of Trent" is a phrase used in seminaries, by seminarians, and among priests, to refer to those who are extravagently "traditionalist" and who are quite homosexual under the cassock. It happens.

Posted by: amy at Sep 15, 2005 9:51:33 AM

Amy's discussion is very sound. I've long felt that a man who makes a big deal out of being "gay" is telling us something about his values. I'm remembering a priest friend who couldn't stop talking about it, until I said, with some exasperation, "I thought you swore off sex. Given that, who cares who you would have sex with if you hadn't sworn off??"

Posted by: Nancy at Sep 15, 2005 9:55:16 AM

But should the man who struggles with same-sex attraction and seeks to live chastely, who buys the whole package of Catholic moral teaching, be put into that category? Absolutely not. To me, that's insane, and truth be told, it's not that difficult to tell the difference.

I'll surprise half of my St. Blog's sparring partners by stating this, but I'm largely in agreement. However, I do think that it's appropriate given what the Church just went through for the Vatican to issue a "time-out" and impose stricter disciplines around this subject than they ordinarily would. No one has a right to be a priest, so the Vatican is free to tighten or relax such rules.

Many of us grew up surrounded by priests with clear homosexual orientations that they didn't seem a bit concerned about hiding. I remember one such visiting seminarian at my high school twenty years ago who was obviously and expressively "gay." He was the butt of half my classmate's jokes and I've got to think there was an inverse proportion between time spent in his French class and vocational discernment.

Has that much changed in 15-20 years? Are there still an unhealthy number of seminarians out there who resemble my visiting French professor? I don't know, but I'm willing to stop giving the benefit of the doubt until we find out.

Posted by: Rich Leonardi at Sep 15, 2005 9:55:39 AM

That's Amy alright. All against piety.

Thanks for your calm reflection, Amy. I'm following this closely, since one of my biggest stumbling blocks is what I perceive to be the mismatch between what the Church says about homosexuals, particularly gay and lesbian couples, and what I've witnessed in the lives of my gay and lesbian friends. Without getting into all that (because yes, that's been discussed here before) I'm just waiting for the details.

As I mentioned over at Mark Shea's revived blog, I particularly have in mind how what the Church does affects the thousands of gay/homosexual/SSA priests who are already, you know, priests.

Posted by: Christopher Fotos at Sep 15, 2005 9:57:23 AM

Having lived through two-and-a-half years of seminary formation at the Saint Paul Seminary (1994-1997), I have a lot of thoughts about what the visitation should include... I began writing a letter to Archbishop Flynn about this back in 1996, in which I compared the Program for Priestly Formation (paragraph by paragraph) to what I experienced in the seminary. The contrasts between the then-current version 4 of the PPF and seminary practice was widespread and serious.

I never finished my letter to Flynn, and nine years have passed in the meantime. There is now a new version of the PPF. I'm going to get a copy of that, as well as the questions for the seminary review process, and begin blogging about this in October.

Posted by: Clayton at Sep 15, 2005 10:03:14 AM

>>I particularly have in mind how what the Church does affects the thousands of gay/homosexual/SSA priests who are already, you know, priests.

Should be similar to what they have for seminarians, with credit for proven self-control. Active homosexual, you're history. "Strong homosexual inclinations", looking at ***es during Masses, gone. Been a priest for 10 or 20 celibate years and struggled with it spiritually sometimes? They've already proven they can handle the 'trial'.

Posted by: Nguoi Dang Chay at Sep 15, 2005 10:10:17 AM

Great post, and I thank God for the umpteenth time I never was for a moment deluded into thinking I had a "vocation." Which is by the by. You are right about the Daughters of Trent, and it can and does reach pretty high up. I know of a certain set of circumstances (I'll keep this pretty general, because this isn't a gossip forum and I'm using this to illustrate an aspect of the on-going Situation): there ia a Catholic institution of highter education here in these United States where active gays (gays who are priests)occupy at least a couple very high administrative positions and do a good job of posing as real orthodox, JPII kinda guys. You don't think they're not part of the mutual-protection society by the clerical Gay Mafia? I have a hard time believing this is "rare." Let alone about to be rooted out easily.
Three more quick points. 1. Being old enough to have observed, a common denominator among ALL the various kinds and waves of priests we've been getting for decades (in America) is a pretty general disinterest in church history. 2. I don't think you woulda been a nun 60 years ago. 3. Oh, I won't mention the woman in the sari this time...oops, I did! Too late!

Posted by: bruce cole at Sep 15, 2005 10:17:54 AM

Amy,

Perfect analysis. I hope it gets widespread distribution.

Men who have accepted sinful behavior as OK and given themselves permission to continue continually - not welcome as seminarians

Men who struggle with temptation and strive to be chaste, regardless of orientation - welcome.

On a side note - my experience with the Paulist community in the early 80's was slightly different. I was discerning a vocation and visiting a friend there. A few weeks after I left, he brought a female study partner from TC over for dinner. Told by the rector that was scandalous, my friend explained it was plutonic - no matter. Don't bring her here. But what about (he asks) Johnny and Bill, who have a non-plutonic relationship and dine together breakfast, lunch and dinner? That's OK, he was told, since its all "in the family" and they are discreet. He left the next dayt after 5 years in the order.

Anyway - thanks again Amy. You hit this one dead-on.

Posted by: Paul Pfaffenberger at Sep 15, 2005 10:28:13 AM

BRUCE:

I just decided she likes funky, sort of flowing clothes. She hasn't actually worn a sari since the first week. Ever since, she's been wearing, long flowy batik skirts.

Posted by: amy at Sep 15, 2005 10:29:43 AM

"Andrew Sullivan, for example, is complaining long and loud about this, but the truth is that, judging from his previous writings, Sullivan doesn't have any problem with, for example, sexual promiscuity, obsessions and fetishes as lived out in the gay subculture, sees all of that beyond the pale of possible judgment, and for all of his hopes for the positive impact of gay families (which I believe is sincere), has absolutely no connection with the ways that Catholic tradition has conceptualized and thought about sexuality."

That all may be (is) true, but Andrew Sullivan's point, in the last few days, has been that the proposed policy of denying all homosexual/same-sex oriented/gay/whatever men entrance into the seminary or priesthood does not square with the Church's past official teachings on the subject. That's a different (and important) argument, and responding with "Who cares what Bareback Andy says" as some have done at St. Blog's the last few days, does not respond to the argument he posed.

Posted by: Patrick Rothwell at Sep 15, 2005 10:36:45 AM

AMY:

Thank you for the update. It is like water to a man who's been wandering, parched for ages, in the desert....(Brother, how do I come up with this stuff??)

- Bruce ("I'm not obsessed, I just play one on a blog")

Posted by: bruce cole at Sep 15, 2005 10:37:32 AM

Amy: thanks for the very balanced and thoughtful comments. I've not been following this blog long enough to be familiar with the conversation on this issue in the past. As a man living with SSA who's applying to enter religious life, this is obviously something that affects me (and others) directly. In my case, however, I've been honest about my struggle in the application process, and I fear that this honesty will be detrimental [In my experience, it already has: in conversation with one place (obviously, I'm not going to be too specific), I was told that they didn't think I was ready because of the SSA issue; a good friend, also homosexual, was accepted, and, apparently, was quite active sexually in seminary. He didn't mention anything about homosexuality, and wasn't asked. He's since left]. I really feel that one of the main consequences of a move in this direction (any kind of a ban on SSA/homosexual seminarians) will simply push this all further underground, when, really, that is exactly what isn't needed.

I too am quite familiar with the "Daughters of Trent" kind of subculture -- orthodox and traditional to the hilt (to the fiddleback?), but actively homosexual behind the scenes. This seems to be a horrible kind of hypocrisy.

What of those who've identified as "gay" in the past, but have since moved away from that? Is there no room for repentance? Should, say, someone like David Morrison, be welcome as a seminarian? Or do we continue to treat SSA as a stigma, this thing that sticks to one's skin and marks one out as unclean, in a sense? Yes, you're ok, but, you know, we don't really trust you?

PS: This moniker was given by Dreadnought (http://johnheard.blogspot.com), where this issue was recently debated as well.

Posted by: Anon-Proto-Seminarian at Sep 15, 2005 10:38:26 AM

Excellent post, thanks for the common sense (as usual!).

I agree with it wholeheartedly although I think that you have to be careful where you put the priests who are "same-sex attract[ed]ion and seek[s] to live chastely, who buys the whole package of Catholic moral teaching" in service. For instance, one of those lovely, kind and pious priests is the chaplain at the local Catholic HS. The girls love him but the boys are wary of him... they don't really make fun of him because they do see holiness in him but his mannerisms are rather effeminate and that throws the teenaged boys. I would think it might affect them seriously considering a vocation. OTOH, this priest lines them up for Confession and is vocally pro-life and pro-Magisterium, he's a good priest.

Posted by: Colleen at Sep 15, 2005 10:39:34 AM

Beautifully written, Amy.

Posted by: John Farrell at Sep 15, 2005 11:06:55 AM

Amy, your analysis is spot-on. I have priest friends that identify themselves as homosexually-oriented. They are chaste and understand that their genitality is not their primary defining factor. These men are good, devoted and holy priests.

On the other hand, I've experienced unhealthy homosexually-inclined religious. I once thought that I had a vocation to a mendicant Order. During my discernment period, I had to deal with numerous sexual entendres and was actually "hit-on" by a novice. This was the proof, for me, that God was not calling me to that Order.

Over the last few years, I've seen that it's most likely that I'm not intended to be a religous. I wonder how many good men, that do have a vocation, this group scared away?

Again, good reflection Amy: well-thought and very Catholic.

N

Posted by: NES at Sep 15, 2005 11:09:22 AM

I would tend to agree with the judgement that that it would be unjust to keep someone who was successfully leading a chaste life with SSA out of the seminary.

That said, were it done it seems the argument pro would be: It's hard enough to lead a chaste lif in the first place, and being a priest will put you in the position of living in close surrounds with an exclusive male community. Especially after you become a priest, you will often be under instense emotional and spiritual pressure. And if you find yourself strongly attracted to your brother priests or your young male parishioners that will only make things hard for you.

Essentially, it would be the same thing you might tell a seminarian who said he struggled with strong temptations toward heavy drinking: Look if you find it hard not to reach for a drink now when you've had a hard day, I'm here to tell you that you will be having much, much harder days if you are a priest.

Now, the fact is, everyone has temptations that they're more likely to cave to under pressure. Some of those tempations are more available to priests than others. Not being one, I can't pretend I have as much of an idea what's an acceptible level of weakness that you're not sending a new priest out to the wolves. Hopefully the Holy Father and the bishops, however, do.

Posted by: DarwinCatholic at Sep 15, 2005 11:14:44 AM

Having been "hit on" by several heterosexual priests, I personally am more comfortable with gay priests, and count many of them to be friends. There is no doubt that some of the rhetoric about gay priests coming out of the Vatican has been hurtful to these men, including very much those who have been chaste. I'm wondering whether we can't focus more on behavior rather than orientation.

After all, we are none of us responsible for the nature of our temptations. I know that for myself I certainly wouldn't want to answer for them.

Posted by: Nancy at Sep 15, 2005 11:16:35 AM

It's interesting that Darwin mentions alcohol. In fact priests (like lawyers, among others) have roughly twice the rate of alcoholism as the general population.

Does that mean we shouldn't ordain (admit to the bar) people with such inclinations? Probably not, but there is cause for extra alertness there.

Posted by: Nancy at Sep 15, 2005 11:20:17 AM

I think Colleen has hit on one of the problems with the "faithful and celibate exception." Would you really trust him with your sons? Do they trust him? Is the whole "women and gay men get along so well" thing a healthy relationship? It would probably be better for women and society as a whole to have healthy hetero men. I mean, is it good for girls to be raised by effeminate men, or even when normal social roles are reversed? Not in my limited experience.

But two other problems are more damning?

1) Is homosexuality a psychological illness, and if so, should it be one that prevents men from entering the priesthood?

2)There is a danger of falling into the notion that the priesthood is somehow a reward and approval, and that rejection from the priesthood means you're a bad Catholic. This is the mistake that those who support female ordination make.

Posted by: Philip at Sep 15, 2005 11:21:15 AM

I left out my last point.

The Catholic Church can forgive sins, but it cannot change the other consequences of sin, such as a continued and increased desire, a habit of sin, and a weakened moral sense overall. This goes all the same for psychological conditions not dependant on any sin of the individual. We have to look at the entirety of God's action in a person, which includes nature as well as grace.

Posted by: Philip at Sep 15, 2005 11:29:22 AM

Those of you who want to drum out even the chaste SSA, should remember one Orthodox Catholicism's hero's John Henry Newman

But the last of the known monuments is of far greater interest, because it is a simple stone cross in the burial ground of the fathers of the Oratory of St Philip Neri on the Lickey Hills south of Birmingham. In the upper part is the name, still clearly legible, of the first of the two friends who were laid there together: Ambrose St John, who died on 24 May 1875. The friend whose remains were laid in his grave in 1890 was none other than John Henry Cardinal Newman.

Their burial in the same tomb was Newman’s emphatic wish. In a note written on 23 July 1876, the year following the death of Ambrose St John, he declared: "I wish, with all my heart, to be buried in Fr Ambrose St John’s grave - and I give this as my last, my imperative will."

Newman seems to have first met Ambrose St John in the spring of 1841. "From the first he loved me with an intensity of love, which was unaccountable", Newman later wrote. "As far as this world was concerned I was his first and last." After that first meeting in 1841, they would be received into the Catholic Church at almost the same time: St John on 2 October 1845, Newman only a week later on 9 October. Newman’s loss of countless Anglican friends as a result of his being received by Rome created an enduring bond between Newman and St John, which would never be broken. St John’s death devastated Newman; he called the loss the "greatest affliction I have had in my life". "I have ever thought no bereavement was equal to that of a husband’s or a wife’s", he wrote, "but I feel it difficult to believe that any can be greater, or any one’s sorrow greater, than mine."

If evidence were needed that the bond between them was an entirely spiritual one, Newman provided it in the days following St John’s death, recounting a conversation between them before St John lost his speech in those final days. He "expressed his hope", Newman wrote, "that during his whole priestly life he had not committed one mortal sin." For men of their time and culture that statement is definitive: but they were not afraid to touch and draw close. Remembering their last moments together, Newman wrote: "Then he put his arm tenderly round my neck, and drew me close to him, and so kept me a considerable time." "I little dreamed", he later wrote, "he meant to say that he was going." "When I rose to go. . . it was our parting." Their love was no less intense for being spiritual; perhaps more so.

Newman’s burial with Ambrose St John cannot be detached from his understanding of the place of friendship in Christian belief or its long history. In a letter that Pope John Paul II sent to Archbishop Vincent Nichols of Birmingham in January 2001 to mark the second centenary of Newman’s birth, Pope John Paul asked for prayers that the time could soon come when the Church "can officially and publicly proclaim the exemplary holiness of Cardinal John Henry Newman". It is likely that his relics will then be brought into the Oratory Church in Birmingham to lie by the altar, and the inheritors of Newman’s faith should not separate them now from his final gesture. That gesture was Newman’s last, imperative command: his last wish as a man, but also something more. It was his last sermon.

Is that off-putting? Probably. Would you want him around your teen boys? Who knows? But there he is - Venerable John Newman, with his intense friendship with another man that would probably make most heterosexual men today extremely uncomfortable.

Posted by: Mark at Sep 15, 2005 11:31:25 AM

...should the man who struggles with same-sex attraction and seeks to live chastely, who buys the whole package of Catholic moral teaching, be put into that category? Absolutely not. ...

One thing that I would add here is the suggestion that such men may need a bit more active support from his formators in his human and spiritual formation than the average seminarian.

Given the pressure both within the prevailing culture at large and within the homosexual subculture in particular for those with SSAs to conform to what Amy has described as the "political gay position" and to the lifestyle it defends, such men who have SSAs but who also desire to live as the Church asks them to need extra help throughout their formation and afterwards.

Otherwise, the temptation to turn away from the earlier desires to be with the Church on this issue could be very easy to give in to.

Posted by: Sean Gallagher at Sep 15, 2005 11:31:49 AM

I think Colleen has hit on one of the problems with the "faithful and celibate exception." Would you really trust him with your sons? Do they trust him?

On the other hand, if he's faithful and celibate and heterosexual, would you really trust him with your daughters?

Certainly not. But we've always known that. Priests have historically had little access to female children because parents have been realistic. My 15 year old daughter does not spend unsupervised time with an adult male, I don't care who he is. We're just beginning to realize that sons aren't necessarily safe either.

Posted by: Nancy at Sep 15, 2005 11:32:05 AM

I am not sure what to think anymore. I think it is a good idea for a seminary vistiation. There was one in the 80's but I am not sure what came out of that. I see this as a response to the sex abuse scandal and now the bishops are going after everyone but themselves. The priests got the short end of the stick with the zero tolerance and all. Now they are supposedly going to get rid of the gays in the seminaries. Maybe we should be getting rid of bishops like Law, Mahony, Imesch, Hubbard, O'Brien, Egan. I think this whole thing could easily backfire on the Church. I can see the MSM having a field day with this and start to out gay priests. It could be a real mess.

Posted by: dave at Sep 15, 2005 11:32:53 AM